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Just “get over the guy” your friends are all telling you, but hey its your life and you are having problems doing that. Does not matter who dumped who, it’s difficult to cut all ties after you had been close for so long, there is a gap in your life and in your heart and it is not easy to fill either in a hurry. But amazingly people do move on with their lives and here si n5 steps to help you get over the guy.

One     open up and free up your hurt feelings, its OK to cry a little, some find that it helps them to write it all done in their journal or pour out your feelings to a good friend, whichever way is good for you bring out the hurt while you get over the guy. 

Another good way that I have heard some people use is to write a NO send letter, pour out your feelings on the page, what was good and what was bad with the relationship, the things and times you enjoyed with him and finally the hurt you feel over the breakup. Keep the letter for a few hours like overnight, read it a few times then in the morning burn it, as the flames take the page they take your hurt it is a new day new beginning it is over and you are ready to move on.

Two   change your attitude, you’ve poured out your feelings and your hurt so it has gone, believe that cause if you think he will change (which he will not) and come back to you will find it really hard to get over the guy

Three  clear him and his things out of your life, if he wants them return everything you have of him, if he does not arrange to have them sent to him anyway, you can dump the small things like his toothbrush. Keep nothing that had anything to do with your relationship with him be ruthless clear your pace of all his things clear him from your life.

Four   it is time to get your circle of friends gather them round, till you meet the right one guys will come and go in your life but your girlfriends are forever. When you are in a hot relationship it is sometimes easy to ignore your friends without thinking for a time, now you need to reconnect they will help you get over the guy and get back your social life. Some of your friends will have gone through the same pain and they got over it by seeing them you can get your confidence back so that you can do it as well.

Five    try doing something you always wanted to do and never got round to it, find a club or class that allows you to pursue that interest. It will occupy your time, take your mind off him and your busted relationship, you will gain a new group of friends and in time you will come to be a new person. 

With your old friends and the new friends in your class or club moving on with your life will come naturally because you will have no time to look back.

Moving on is definitely the best way of getting over the guy.

 
 


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02/01/2012 2:09am

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