Relationships Need Freedom 07/21/2010
 Throughout the life of any relationship there are ups and downs, times when your relationship is hot and times when it cools, this is a normal pattern for everybody. If anybody tells you it is not true with them then the chances are that their relationship is so flat and possibly lacking in any sort of passion that the difference between up and down is zero. It’s quite possible that’s the way they both like it to be, but for the rest of us, well that’s a different story. Relationship needs – freedom; on the face of it that’s strange title, but it does not mean freedom in a physical sense so it does not advocate a so called open relationship, rather it means a feeling of almost spiritual freedom. The chance to share and unburden each others fears and problems, within the relationship, this will ultimately bring you closer together. Before we look closer, just remember the fuel for all relationships is hope, hope is the difference between living and existing, without hope there is no real future. Freedom from the pain of yesterday, there may be things that happened to either of you before you got together, these may not be big things but simply incidents that stick in your mind. Don’t get stuck in the past bring it out and talk about it, with compassion and love, your pain will disappear. I’ve found that the most common is resentment about having been hurt in the past and being unable to bring out that resentment, well now’s your chance. The flip side is the guilt of regret for things you have done to hurt somebody, the answer is the same, neither guilt nor resentment can stand the full light of a loving relationship so they will disappear when exposed to your loving relationship. Freedom from the pressure of today if you face life’s pressures together hand in hand, then you will gain strength and stability from each other. Life, especially in today’s economic climate, is tough so facing things together on an equal basis reduces stress - “a problem shared is a problem halved”. In doing this you will go a long way towards freedom from the daily pressures of life. Freedom from pessimism about the future sharing is the key to this problem as well, it may not be able to change the future, but if you gain strength from each other and talk about the future then freedom from pessimism will at least grow. The future will look brighter and together you can face whatever comes your way, to get through life’s challenges. Now is the time to step on the gas and fuel your hope for the future, together you can change the way things turn out. You may need some help to get your freedom, but I hope that you can see what can be done, there are many ways to get help, possibly from your church they will have a relationship counsellor, maybe from a professional guidance counsellor. But my favourite is what helped us the most, online counselling in the privacy and comfort of our own home, which taught us the best way to talk things over and bring out our problems, it worked for us. CommentsI enjoyed your post about getting your ex back. It drills 01/28/2011 3:41am
Its a nice post giving each other freedom and at the same time respecting each others needs and taking more time to understand and eventually the difference would become each others' likes...thanks for the post samson sebastine 08/02/2011 11:13am
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I have been scammed by three casters that promised me and get my money trying all my means to stop my marriage from hitting the rock..i was so desperate to keep my family as my husband wants a divorce..i seek everywhere to stop my marriage from collapsing..i seek spiritual helps to get things right but all i talked with never did anything for me..when i ask them for my money since they cant give the results they promised, they threaten to curse me if i ever talk to them again or let people know about this..i can help you with the few liars i have worked with if you talk to me here williamsanita547@gmail.com ..I have just seen the result of the spell i did with greatokija@yahoo.com... he is real and genius and i got real results.. never let this mad people online here pretending to be what they are not get your money anymore.. he gets paid for his services after he has giving to you what he wanted.. anyone asking for payments before results is a fake.. its a life time opportunity i have gotten.. never let it go too.. master guru 09/02/2011 11:42am
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I have been scammed by three casters that promised me and get my money trying all my means to stop my marriage from hitting the rock..i was so desperate to keep my family as my husband wants a divorce..i seek everywhere to stop my marriage from collapsing..i seek spiritual helps to get things right but all i talked with never did anything for me..when i ask them for my money since they cant give the results they promised, they threaten to curse me if i ever talk to them again or let people know about this..i can help you with the few liars i have worked with if you talk to me here williamsanita547@gmail.com ..I have just seen the result of the spell i did with greatokija@yahoo.com... he is real and genius and i got real results.. never let this mad people online here pretending to be what they are not get your money anymore.. he gets paid for his services after he has giving to you what he wanted.. anyone asking for payments before results is a fake.. its a life time opportunity i have gotten.. never let it go too..... john 02/01/2012 2:05am
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